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Paul Melton Swett

January 30, 1961 ~ May 24, 2016 (age 55) 55 Years Old
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A candle was lit by The Aitkens on June 5, 2016 2:55 PM
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A candle was lit by Julian on June 3, 2016 8:09 PM
Message from Rebecca
June 2, 2016 10:00 PM

Paul Milton Swett is missed by so many people. I don't think he realized how many people cared about and loved him. He loved animals dearly and they could see the enormous heart he had because no matter where he went if there was a cat or a dog it would just come to him naturally.

Paul loved fried chicken smothered in hot sauce, hated eggs over easy, loved chocolate cake and candy. Paul would go out of his way to help people in hardships situations buying them food, clothes, furniture or whatever else he could do to help. He wanted people to see him not for the mistakes he's made but for his merciful heart.

He didn't judge anyone because he was constantly being judged himself. His heart was broken when people couldn't see that he meant well and didn't understand why some people wanted to change him. Paul who really was struggling himself would help a stranger out. A few weeks ago he found an expensive phone and tried to find it's owner. Paul contacted the owner and arranged to return it. Paul was not looking for a reward he just wanted to do a good deed and help someone out.

Paul was recognized as a great guy because he found it self rewarding to help people out. It was as if he got a second chance with strangers, he could be himself around them. He couldn't understand why people could be so cruel. He respected his best friend from childhood, Donna, she never judged him and loved him for who he was. That meant so much to him. He said a few weeks ago he wanted to write Dina, Donna and I a final letter explaining how much he appreciated all of us. He adored not only Donna but also her family Scott and Julian. I explained to him so many times that people knew that he knew that he was very appreciated by all of us. We never turned our backs on him and he always had a place to stay. He felt safe at my place because no one was going to judge him and he got the respect that he deserved.

He loved and adored Donna, Dina and I and we treated him like an equal and would help him out which he appreciated so much. He never wanted to see people in pain and was an excellent caretaker. He loved looking out for his friends - Adam, Julian ,Scott, Richard, Bubba and many more.

I dreamed of Paul Last night and he said that even though he's not here in the physical world he's here in the spiritual world, and that he spreads his wings and watches over all of us. Paul you are very missed and we all love you very much.
Message from Jeri Ann DiGiovanni
June 2, 2016 5:01 PM

Such sad news. Paul, We think about you often and pray you are in peace.

Dina, I am so very sorry for your loss. I know he was your HS Sweetheart, and you stood tall for him always. Thank God he had you to love. I pray you'll find a new peacefulness, and eventually total happiness for the rest of your life.
All our love, Jeri Ann DiGiovanni & Frank & Karen Wax
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A candle was lit by Jeri Ann DiGiovanni on June 2, 2016 4:53 PM
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